Embracing Tough Times
Written by Rev. Dr. Scott Paczkowski
“I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world!”
We work for forty or more years trying desperately to provide a comfortable life, and often life feels hollow. If money creates happiness, then our country should be the happiest in the history of the world. Yet, as I look around, I witness so many reasonably wealthy people who are so unsatisfied. Is it possible to be too comfortable?
In his article “How Too Much Comfort Is Making You Miserable,” Markham Heid affirms that too much comfort is a recipe for unhappiness and a lack of contentment. Heid states, “When all of our most fundamental needs (food, warmth, safety) are so thoroughly and perpetually satisfied, he says we not only lose our appreciation for what we have but we also ‘move the goalposts’ and fixate on social comparisons that make us miserable.” Comfort and satisfaction cannot be purchased, but only experienced.
Often, when older people reflect on their lives, they tell the stories of challenging times. When you overcome harrowing experiences, it usually provides pride and wisdom. There was pride in working through the situation and not only surviving, but also becoming more vital. Discomfort can also offer a pathway to understanding. When we work through a challenging situation, we learn confidence, trust in God, trust in ourselves, and how to address uncomfortable moments in the future.
The blessing comes from including God. Today, rather than avoiding discomfort at any price, if you face a challenging moment, face it knowing God can provide wisdom and the confidence that comes with enduring. Knowing you face the discomfort with God at your side provides the courage to face the uncertainty and learn from the trials at hand. The only thing worse than pain is not having any.
