Crafting a Life with Intention
Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” (Romans 12:2)
Growing up, I didn't visualize crafting a life with intention. I knew I wanted to be a minister but I was also concerned about nurturing friendships, extracurriculars, and having fun. I went to a college where I could major in religion but focused much of my energy on the theater. As my college career was ending, I didn't focus enough on which Seminary I would attend. Yet, God had a clear plan for my life, even if I didn't always concentrate sufficient time on crafting my life. At the last minute, I was accepted to McCormick Seminary in Chicago and then had a call to a congregation shortly before I graduated four years later. God moved forward with my life's plan, even if I wasn't always focused enough.
When I was an adolescent and older, I wish I had been influenced by the writing of Thomas Oppong and his article "The Path to a Great Life Comes Down to 3 Simple Things." Oppong calls us to intentionally create a path to a life we can be proud of at the end of our days. Oppong says, "Work can be a daily engagement with your purpose." Your occupation does not define you, but having a job that honors your values does make your life more fulfilling. Today, too many young people choose their major and occupation with money as their only criterion. Even if they fulfill their goal of making huge dollars, that does not mean their lives will be well lived.
Next, Oppong challenges you to ponder, "What you do outside work?" Many people I've respected and tried to emulate were amazing outside their vocation. Some, I didn't even know or care what they did for a living, but they made the most significant impact on my life. Bob Rathbun and Farrell Burho were my two 60+-year-old partners in crime in our church choir when I was in high school. They were mentors and pals. I never evaluated their value by their occupation but by the integrity, care, and love they showed me and many others.
Finally, Oppong asks you to consider "your circle of influence." Oppong believes, "The people you are connected to, including friends, family, colleagues, mentors, associates and acquaintances have more to do with your life than you think." Finding a church home is foundational to your success in crafting a meaningful life. Each day, pray for divine guidance to find an occupation that speaks to your heart and becomes more than just your job. You can make your life whole by living it, honoring God in Christ's Church. You will influence others in a lasting way through loving others around you. Bob Rathbun and Farrell Burho did that for me. Some young women and men could benefit from you.