Even Better than Money
Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
I feel a massive shift taking place in our culture. It appears more women and men are redefining their life's ambitions, and money is becoming only a secondary motivator. After decades of striving for financial supremacy, people recognize their choices have unintentional consequences. People realize that money alone does not create more happiness once our basic needs are met. So, where are people looking now for fulfillment?
According to Karen Nimmo's article "Beyond Money, These are the Six Things People Crave Most," happiness has more to do with one's state of mind than with the financial bottom line. A quiet, calm mind is what people are longing for today. Nimmo says, "It's hard to enjoy anything when your mind is full of intrusive, racing, chaotic thoughts and dread churns in your stomach." People recognize that our world is more chaotic daily, and many just want to get off the treadmill. Yet, at the same time, Nimmo claims, we desire more excitement. Excitement, however, is not synonymous with chaos. We just want a break from the monotony our day jobs and other financial decisions have created.
Nimmo also admits we are crying out to contribute to the greater good. In our complex and dehumanizing world, we are no longer unwilling to live meaningless lives. Nimmo quotes Stephen Covey, "the key to life is not accumulation, it is contribution." Feeling useful and valuable to others is better than the most expensive clothes or technology, which leads us to the most desired experience, to be loved. We, humans, are connectional beings. Connecting on an intimate level is what brings us our greatest joy and meaning. Unfortunately, we cannot purchase love. Nimmo concludes, "to love and feel loved by your people, whoever they are, offers a sense of belonging that boosts emotional wellbeing."
As a pastor, I look at therapist Karen Nimmo's article, and I am awed by the relationship between emotional joy and one's faith in God. Prayer, and sometimes worship, provides a quiet, calm mind. Mission, singing, and many other church activities offer opportunities for excitement. Some of my most exciting moments occurred during special church activities, including mission trips and activities, singing in choirs, and caring for others in need. Contributing to the greater good is the backbone of the Christian faith and is readily available in most churches. Finally, being loved by others can be found in a church setting. Plus, the greatest love, which is deeper and more profound than marriage, is God's love for you and me. Once the love of God for you is recognized, you are never the same. Happiness stays with you even amid life's darkest moments.