Do Your Small Part and Trust God to Clean Up the Mess
written by: Rev. Dr. Scott Paczkowski
“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.”
It is election day, and no matter what side of the aisle you are on, you must be celebrating the end of the painful political ads. I pray that we will have a clear and legitimate Presidential election winner, making it harder to slander our election officials and damage the electoral process. I keep reminding myself that other than casting my vote, I cannot control anything others might do to damage our nation’s democratic process. All I can do is focus on how I will respond outwardly to others around me.
The response process should always begin within one’s mind because our emotions dictate our responses to the world around us. Scott’s rule number 1 is to remind myself not to obsess over the things I cannot control. I cannot control who wins this election, nor can I control how others will respond. Yes, some venting and perhaps even a little screaming into my pillow will happen, but I will choose to be cynical and bitter because of how others choose to act out.
Number 2, I will work the problem. Getting a game plan is essential for me in troubling moments. When so much about the election is beyond my influence, I can still control my reaction, be compassionate, and listen to those in distress. Caring is not limited to one political party. Be sure to check on family and friends you know who are struggling. It is an act of faithfulness to let them vent without judgment. Try to withhold correction or defense of what you believe to be proper facts or conduct. Their venting allows them to get out their frustrations and disappointment, so they can think through their process and develop a healthier perspective on the future.
Finally, number 3, pray, pray, pray. Pray over the reconciliation process at the end of any venting session or even a civil conversation. Be careful not to use your prayer as a tool of persuasion when the other person is present but offer a genuine act of compassion. Further, remain attuned to your mind and body over the next stressful weeks. When you begin feeling tense, anxious, or angry, catch yourself and say a prayer. Even with a group of people, you can say a quick, silent prayer that only you notice. Prayer will ignite the Spirit to remind us that we are not alone in this mess and God will make all things work for good. Hang in there and be patient and supportive of yourself along the way.
