The Courage to Suffer with Perspective

“Behold, I make all things new.” (Revelation 21:5)

In moments of suffering, it is difficult to retain a proper perspective. The idea that we can get through life without pain and suffering is ridiculous. When we get to the place where we accept that suffering and pain are an inevitable part of life, we will be better able to endure it with less stress and burnout.

In his article, “The Root of All Human Suffering is Attachment to Unrealistic Expectations,” Thomas Oppong teaches, “Expectations is a broad term that refers to anything or anyone we hold onto to make ourselves feel better or secure.” Of course, we can try lying to ourselves and say, “That won’t happen to me,” but attempting to fool oneself will not change reality and will leave us ill-prepared to face the challenge.

We spend much of our time in Christian Education, preparing the faithful for suffering. Every person who loves will suffer because all lives end in death. Before death, there will be moments of physical and emotional pain. Pretending we are too famous, rich, or lucky to suffer will make us hit bottom faster and harder. For people of faith, preparing ourselves and others by developing a trusting relationship with the Almighty One is our lifelong call. We no longer pretend but strive to face adversity when it comes, knowing God will carry us safely through. We endure because our perspective is transformed. We recognize how God has guided the Biblical figures and directed us throughout our lives.

Today, spend a little time remembering moments of pain and suffering in your own life and how you not only endured but overcame adversity. Throughout the Bible, we are blessed with people recalling their struggles and how God provided care, redirection, mercy, and love. We commune with the Holy Spirit’s strength when we have a perspective based on reality and courageously face suffering, knowing God will be with us always and will make all things new.”